“So That Day Come Upon You Unawares”


A Loving Word on Readiness for the People of God

Luke 21:34 (KJV); “And take heed to yourselves, lest at any time your hearts be overcharged with surfeiting, drunkenness, and cares of this life, and so that day come upon you unawares.”

Come, beloved, and sit awhile with me. Not in a hurry, not with one eye on the clock; but truly sit, the way you would sit at a kitchen table with someone who loves you, when the tea is warm and there is nowhere else in the world you need to be. Because I believe the Holy Spirit has something for us in this verse; something tender, something searching, something that will save you from a sorrow you never have to know. I am not writing to scold you. I am writing the way a mother writes to a child who is precious to her, the way a friend writes to a friend at midnight, the way a watchman writes to a city he loves. I am writing because I have walked this road myself, and I know the difference between a heart that is ready and a heart that is merely busy.

Let us go together, then, to the Gospel according to Saint Luke, chapter twenty-one, verse thirty-four. And let us not merely read it; let us linger in it, camp beside it, let it preach to us until it has done its good and healing work.

Where Jesus Was Standing When He Said These Words

Before we touch the verse itself, we must see the place. Because words spoken from a certain place carry a certain weight, and the weight of this word is enormous.

Jesus is on the Mount of Olives. He has just left the temple for the last time. Picture it; that magnificent house of God, its stones gleaming like snow and gold in the Jerusalem sun, the very building the disciples cannot stop marveling over. And Jesus, with infinite gentleness and infinite honesty, turns to them and tells them plainly: this world as you know it is not going to last. There are days coming. Days of trouble. Days of distress. Days when the things men build with their hands and their pride will be scattered like leaves before the wind.

It would have been easy, in that moment, for Jesus to speak only of the great and terrible things; the earthquakes and the signs, the roaring of the sea and the waves, the powers of heaven shaken. But look at what He does instead. In the middle of all that solemn prophecy, He stops. He turns His face toward His own. And He gives His children a personal word; a word just for the household of faith, a word meant to be heard over the noise of every other voice.

And that word begins with four small words that contain an ocean: “And take heed to yourselves.”

Take heed. Watch out. Pay attention. Be on guard. Be on guard over the you that lives inside your own chest. Because before the enemy ever knocks at your front door, he has already been working in the back rooms of your heart. The greatest danger on that last day is not the tribulation out there. It is the drowsiness in here.

Part One: The Peculiar Word; Surfeiting

Now let us lean in close, because the Holy Spirit wastes no syllable in the original Greek. Every word Jesus chose was chosen with the precision of a surgeon and the love of a Father. And when He warns us about the condition of the soul, He reaches for a word so startlingly exact that it still staggers the imagination two thousand years later.

The word in your King James Bible is surfeiting. But in the Greek, the word is kraipalē and I want you to understand what that word meant to the people who first heard it, because it will change the way you read this verse for the rest of your life.

In the classical Greek world, that word was remarkably, almost uncomfortably specific. It did not mean a vague, general “overindulgence.” No, beloved; it meant one thing and one thing only: the morning-after hangover. The thick, sick, spinning headache. The giddiness and nausea that follow drinking too deeply and too long. The ancient Greeks knew exactly what they were saying when they used that word, and so did the Spirit who inspired it.

Now come with me into that picture. You have overindulged; in food, in drink, in the world’s noise. And you wake up, and the light hurts your eyes. The sounds are too loud. Your head is throbbing. Your stomach is queasy. Your thoughts are tangled up like fishing line after a storm. You cannot focus. You cannot think straight. Your mouth is dry, your spirit is dull, and there is that sick, heavy feeling of regret settling on your chest like a wet blanket you cannot throw off.

That is kraipalē. That is the exact word Jesus chooses to describe the condition of the soul that has been drinking too deeply from the wrong well.

And here is my question to you; and I ask it with all the love in my heart, the love of one who has been there: Why would the Lord choose a word that literally describes a hangover to describe the condition of your soul?

I will tell you why. Because spiritual dullness is not a theory. It is not an abstract doctrine you debate in a classroom. It is a felt experience. It is physical. It is real. When you have consumed too much of this world’s entertainment, and this world’s opinion, and this world’s vanity; your soul gets drunk. And the next morning, when you try to pray; the light hurts. When you try to open the Word; the words blur. When you try to hear the still, small voice of the Spirit; everything sounds too loud, and yet you cannot hear a thing. It is the most crowded silence in the world.

That is spiritual kraipalē. And some of you are living in it right now; you have been living in it for years; and you never had a name for it. You just knew that prayer felt heavy, that the Bible felt distant, that worship felt like a chore. You thought you were tired. You thought you were busy. You thought something was wrong with you.

Oh, Nothing is wrong with you, so that grace cannot heal. But first, let us name the thing, so we can be free of it.

Part Two: The Three Poisons

The background of this word tells us that kraipalē is the spiritual dizziness that comes when we consume too much of this world’s three great poisons. I want to name them for you plainly, because you are old enough to handle the truth, and I love you too much to leave you in the dark. These are not new temptations; they are as old as Eden; but they have never worn such modern masks.

The First Poison: Entertainment

I am not talking about the legitimate rest of a weary heart. God Himself gave us the Sabbath. There is nothing sinful about a good story, a good meal, a good laugh with people you love. No; I am talking about the endless scroll. Those ten-second videos that flit across your soul like gnats; you cannot even remember what you watched ten minutes after you watched it. You scroll, and you scroll, and you scroll, and your mind fills with a thousand images of nothing. And the Scripture says your heart gets overcharged; weighed down, loaded down, like a truck carrying far more than it was built to carry.

And here is the trap, beloved: you do not feel the weight while you are loading it. That is the devil’s cleverness. Each little video is so light. Each little click is so small. But add them together, hour after hour, day after day, year after year; and you are staggering under a load you never noticed yourself picking up. You only feel it when you try to stand up and pray. That is when the weight announces itself.

The Second Poison: Opinion

The op-eds. The hot takes. The talking heads. The comment sections. The endless, churning noise of men drowning out the whisper of God. You fill your mind all day long with what they say, and what she thinks, and what he predicts; and there is no room left for what the Spirit says. Your mind becomes a crowded room, the way a house becomes crowded at a party, and the Holy Ghost cannot get a word in edgewise. Have you noticed how loudly the world talks? It is because it is afraid of the silence. And have you noticed how hard it is to hear God in that noise? It is not because He has stopped speaking. It is because we have stopped listening.

The Third Poison: Vanity

The mirror-gazing. Measuring your worth by likes, by applause, by the approval of a world that is passing away. Checking your phone to see if anybody noticed you. And when they do not; that dull ache inside, that small voice that whispers you are not enough; that is not a new feeling, beloved. That is kraipalē. That is the hangover of a soul that has been drinking from a broken cistern, a well that can hold no water. (Jeremiah 2:13)

The Scripture says your heart gets overcharged with these things. Overcharged; like a battery filled past its capacity. Like a sponge so saturated with muddy water that it cannot receive a single drop of clear.

That is the picture, and I want you to hold it: a sponge saturated with mud. Then you come to the Bible, and you wonder why it does not soak in. You sit down to pray, and your mind is still scrolling through what you just watched. You open the Scripture, and there is a resistance; a thickness in the air, a fog in the brain. And you think, “I am just busy.”

No, beloved. You are not just busy. You are surfeited. You are overfull. Full of a world that promises you, life and delivers you a headache and a sigh. And the gentlest, most loving thing I can do for you is to tell you the truth: the world has been serving you drinks that will never satisfy, and you have been drinking them to the dregs.

Part Three: The Part We Must Not Miss

But tonight; and I say this from the deepest part of my heart; the emphasis of this message is not just on the surfeiting. Oh, no. That is the setup, not the sermon. The Holy Spirit did not give us this verse so we could stop at the hangover. He gave it to us to lead us to the consequence, the way a loving physician leads you through the diagnosis to the cure.

Look at the end of the verse with me. Here it is. This is what I want you to write on the wall of your heart:

“…and so that day come upon you unawares.”

Unawares. Do you know what that word means? It means unexpectedly. It means suddenly, when you are not watching. It means; you did not see it coming. You did not have your guard up. And that Day; that great and terrible and glorious Day of the Lord; walked right up to you like a thief in the night, and you never heard a footstep.

Now look at verse thirty-five, because Jesus explains Himself: “For as a snare shall it come on all them that dwell on the face of the whole earth.”

A snare. Do you know how a snare works? A snare does not chase you. A snare waits. It lies hidden. It looks like just another part of the ground, just another shadow, just another patch of grass. The bird does not see it. The bird is busy. The bird is eating. The bird is singing. The bird is enjoying the day, utterly convinced that tomorrow will be just like today. And then; snap!; before it even knows what has happened, it is caught. The day that began like every other day has become the day that changed everything.

That is what Jesus is telling you. That Day is not going to come with trumpets blowing for the unprepared. It is going to come like a snare. Quiet. Hidden. Sudden. And the only thing that will matter in that moment is not how much you knew; but whether you were ready.

Part Four: The Thief in the Night

Come with me now to First Thessalonians, chapter five. Because the Apostle Paul was taught by the same Spirit, and he says it this way:

“For yourselves know perfectly that the day of the Lord so cometh as a thief in the night.” (1 Thessalonians 5:2)

A thief. When does a thief come? He does not come at high noon, does he? He does not call ahead. He does not send a postcard or a text message. He comes in the night; when the house is dark, when the family is asleep, when the lights are out and the doors are unlocked. And here is the searching part; Paul tells us plainly who is in danger of being robbed:

“Therefore, let us not sleep, as do others; but let us watch and be sober.” (1 Thessalonians 5:6)

Did you catch that? It is not the unsaved who are in danger of sleeping in this verse. Paul is writing to the brethren. He is writing to the church. He is writing to you and to me. And he is warning us; because it is possible for a child of God to be asleep when the Master comes. It is possible to be saved and still be snoozing. It is possible to have your name written in the Lamb’s book of life and still be caught off guard on the day your Lord returns.

Listen to me and let this sink down into the deep places of your soul. The man in the house does not get robbed because he is not home. He gets robbed because he is asleep. He owns the house. He paid for the house. The house is his; the deed is in his name, the mortgage is paid; but he is sleeping, and the thief comes, and the day comes upon him unawares.

You can belong to Jesus and still be caught off guard. That is the warning. That is why Jesus said, “Take heed to yourselves.” Because it is possible to be a child of the day and still be found sleeping like a child of the night. Salvation is not the end of the journey, beloved; it is the beginning. And the question the Spirit is asking us tonight is not “Are you saved?” It is “Are you awake?”

Part Five: The Wedding and the Oil

Now let me take you to another place, because I want you to see that this is not an isolated warning; it is the heartbeat of the New Testament. Turn with me to Matthew, chapter twenty-five. Jesus tells the parable of the ten virgins. And I want you to notice something tonight that will bless you and search you in equal measure.

“Then shall the kingdom of heaven be likened unto ten virgins, which took their lamps, and went forth to meet the bridegroom. And five of them were wise, and five were foolish.” (Matthew 25:1–2)

All ten had lamps. All ten went out to meet the bridegroom. All ten were waiting. All ten believed He was coming; you must understand this, because it is the heart of the parable. There was no difference between them at the beginning. Not in their profession. Not in their lamps. Not in their destination. They were all on the same road, all holding the same light, all waiting for the same Bridegroom.

But the Scripture says:

“But while the bridegroom tarried, they all slumbered and slept.” (Matthew 25:5)

They all slept. The wise slept and the foolish slept. The difference was not in the sleeping; it was in the oil. The wise had oil in their vessels, stored up for the long wait. The foolish had only what was in their lamps, and when the flame burned down, there was nothing left to feed it.

And at midnight; midnight, beloved, when nobody expects anything, when the watch changes and the streets are empty; there was a cry made: “Behold, the bridegroom cometh; go ye out to meet him.” (Matthew 25:6)

And the foolish found their lamps gone out. And they had to go buy. And while they went to buy; “the bridegroom came; and they that were ready went in with him to the marriage: and the door was shut.” (Matthew 25:10)

The door was shut. And then; and listen to this, because this is the heartbreak of the whole parable; “Afterward came also the other virgins, saying, Lord, Lord, open to us. But he answered and said, Verily I say unto you, I know you not.” (Matthew 25:11–12)

Do you see it, beloved? They were not caught unawares because they did not believe the Bridegroom was coming. They believed! They were waiting! They had dressed for the wedding! But they ran out of oil. And when He came, they were not ready.

Jesus ends that parable with the very word He gives us tonight: “Watch therefore, for ye know neither the day nor the hour wherein the Son of man cometh.” (Matthew 25:13)

The oil, beloved, is the secret life of the soul; the time spent in His presence when no one is watching, the prayers prayed behind closed doors, the Word hidden in the heart, the slow accumulation of intimacy with God that cannot be borrowed at the last minute and cannot be bought in the midnight hour. You cannot borrow another person’s oil. You can sit in their church, sing their songs, hear their sermons; but the oil must be yours. The relationship must be yours. The flame that burns when the Bridegroom comes must be fed by a supply that only you could have stored up, day by quiet day, in the secret place.

Part Six: The Day That Comes Unawares

Now let me bring it home. Let me make it as plain as I can, because I want the simplest mind reading these words to be able to lay hold of it.

The warning of Luke 21:34 is this: the Day is coming; that is certain. But whether it catches you unawares depends on the condition of your heart.

Look at the verse one more time. It is all one chain, one unbroken link:

Take heed to yourselves; that is the command. Lest your hearts be overcharged with surfeiting, and drunkenness, and cares of this life; that is the danger. And so that day come upon you unawares; that is the consequence.

If you overcharge your heart, the Day catches you unawares. It is cause and effect. It is a law, like gravity. You cannot drink all night and then expect to be sharp at dawn. You cannot fill your soul with the world’s mud and expect to see the eternal clearly. You cannot spend every waking hour scrolling and expect your spirit to be alert when the trumpet sounds.

And here is the thing that ought to shake us gently awake: the Day is not going to announce itself. The Scripture says it comes as a thief. It comes as a snare. It comes at midnight. It comes “when they shall say Peace and safety; then sudden destruction cometh upon them.” (1 Thessalonians 5:3)

Listen to me, grown folks. You have lived long enough to know how sudden things can be. You have seen it with your own eyes. You know somebody who was here one day and gone the next. You know how fast life can change; how one phone call can rewrite your whole world before lunch. And if you know that about this life, how much more should you be ready for that Day?

The Bible says in Second Peter, chapter three, verse ten: “But the day of the Lord will come as a thief in the night; in the which the heavens shall pass away with a great noise, and the elements shall melt with fervent heat, the earth also and the works that are therein shall be burned up.”

It will come. It will come suddenly. The only question is; will it find you watching, or will it find you hungover?

Part Seven: A Story to Help You Remember

Let me tell you a little story, and I want you to put yourself in it. I have told this story in my own heart many times, and it has never failed to search me.

There was a man who loved his father. His father lived in another town, and the father had told him, “Son, I’m coming to see you. I’m going to drive up one day; I don’t know exactly when, but I’m coming. I want to find you ready.”

Well, the son was excited at first. He cleaned the house. He bought groceries. He put fresh flowers on the table. He told his friends, “My father is coming!” But days went by. Weeks went by. The father did not come. So, the son stopped cleaning. The dishes piled up in the sink. The mail stacked up on the table. The son got busy; busy with his job, busy with his friends, busy with his phone. And the thought of his father’s visit faded, until one day he hardly thought of it at all. The flowers died and were thrown away. The groceries were eaten. The expectation was gone.

And then one afternoon; a Tuesday, of all days, the most ordinary day you could imagine; there was a knock at the door. And when he opened it, there stood his father. And his father looked at the dishes. Looked at the dust. Looked at his son’s face; and the son looked at his father’s face; and the son was ashamed. Not because his father was angry. His father was not angry. His father was grieved. Because he had said he was coming, and his son had not watched.

That is what it means for the Day to come upon you unawares. Not that you did not believe; but that you did not watch. Not that you did not know the Father was coming; but that you let the cares of this life, and the entertainment, and the opinions, and the vanity, fill up the house of your heart until there was no room left for the expectation of His coming.

The Apostle Paul put it this way in Romans, chapter thirteen: “And that, knowing the time, that now it is high time to awake out of sleep: for now, is our salvation nearer than when we believed. The night is far spent, the day is at hand: let us therefore cast off the works of darkness… not in rioting and drunkenness… but put ye on the Lord Jesus Christ.” (Romans 13:11–14)

“Now is our salvation nearer than when we believed.” Do you hear that? Every day you wake up, that Day is closer than it was yesterday. It is closer than it was this morning. And the question is not whether it will come. The question is whether it will catch you unawares.

Part Eight: The Grace of the Warning

Now, beloved, I want you to understand the love behind this warning. Because some of you might be reading these words right now and feeling condemned. You might be thinking, “Teacher, that’s me. I’ve been scrolling. I’ve been drinking from this world. I’ve been sleeping. I’ve let my heart get overcharged. What do I do now?”

Hear me and hear me good: Jesus did not give you this warning to condemn you. He gave you this warning to save you.

A warning is a gift. When a mother calls her child’s name across the street because a car is coming; she is not scolding him. She is saving him. When the doctor tells you about the warning signs in your body; he is not trying to frighten you. He is trying to help you live. And when Jesus says, “Take heed to yourselves, lest that day come upon you unawares”; He is not wagging His finger at you. He is reaching for you. He is calling your name across the street of this world because He loves you, and He does not want that Day to catch you sleeping.

Look at verse thirty-six, and see the tenderness of His heart:

“Watch ye therefore, and pray always, that ye may be accounted worthy to escape all these things that shall come to pass, and to stand before the Son of man.” (Luke 21:36)

That is the escape route, beloved. Two words: watch and pray.

Watch; keep your eyes open. Do not get so full of this world that you cannot see the eternal. The eyes of the heart are like the eyes of the body: what you feed them is what they see. Feed them on the world, and the world is all you will see. Feed them on His Word, and you will begin to see the Day before it comes.

Pray; stay connected to the Vine. Because the sponge that is full of mud cannot hold clear water; but a sponge that has been squeezed out, and rinsed, and filled with the Spirit; that is a sponge that is ready for anything. Prayer is the rinsing. Prayer is the squeezing. Prayer is the emptying that makes room for His filling.

The Psalmist said, “I have rejoiced in the way of thy testimonies, as much as in all riches.” And he asked, “Wherewithal shall a young man cleanse his way? by taking heed thereto according to thy word.” (Psalm 119:9) The cleansing agent for a surfeited soul is the Word of God. You have been filling your mind with the world’s noise; now fill it with His voice. You have been drinking from muddy cisterns; now drink from the fountain that never runs dry.

And John wrote, “Love not the world, nor the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world. And the world passeth away, and the lust thereof: but he that doeth the will of God abideth forever.” (1 John 2:15–17)

The world is passing away. The scroll will end. The hot takes will be forgotten. The likes will fade. The applause will die down. But he that doeth the will of God abideth forever. And on that Day, beloved, the only thing that will matter is not how much of the world you consumed; but whether you were found in Christ.

Part Nine: The Midnight Cry

Let me close with this, and I want you to hear it as a word of love, not a word of fear. In Luke chapter twelve, Jesus told another parable. A master left his house and put his servants in charge, and He said: “Blessed is that servant, whom his lord when he cometh shall find so doing.” (Luke 12:43) But He also warned: “And if that servant say in his heart, My lord delayeth his coming… the lord of that servant will come in a day when he looketh not for him, and at an hour when he is not aware, and will cut him asunder.” (Luke 12:45–46)

And in Mark, chapter thirteen, He says: “Watch ye therefore: for ye know not when the master of the house cometh, at even, or at midnight, or at the cockcrowing, or in the morning: lest coming suddenly he find you sleeping. And what I say unto you I say unto all, Watch.” (Mark 13:35–37)

“What I say unto you I say unto all, Watch.” He said it to Peter and James and John on the mountain. He said it to the church in Sardis: “Be watchful, and strengthen the things which remain, that are ready to die.” (Revelation 3:2) And tonight, by the Holy Ghost, He is saying it to you. Not as a threat; as a love letter. As a lifeline thrown across the water.

The thief does not send a postcard. The snare does not ring the bell. The Bridegroom does not text ahead. The Day is coming; and it will come to the whole earth like a snare. But you, beloved; you are not of the night. You are children of the day. You have the promise: “But ye, brethren, are not in darkness, that that day should overtake you as a thief.” (1 Thessalonians 5:4)

That Day should not overtake you as a thief. Did you hear that? That is the promise! But it is conditional. It is for those who are not in darkness; for those who are watching and sober; for those who have not let their hearts be overcharged with the world’s surfeiting. The promise is real, and it is yours; if you will take the hand that is reaching for you tonight.

A Quiet Place to Search Your Heart

So let me ask you, one beloved to another, before we pray; the way a friend would ask, with no accusation in the voice, only love:

What have you been consuming that leaves you spiritually hungover?

Is it the endless scroll; those ten-second videos flitting across your soul like gnats? Is it the op-eds and the hot takes; the noise of men drowning out the whisper of God? Is it the mirror-gazing; measuring your worth by a world that is passing away?

Can you describe a season when you had consumed so much of this world that your soul felt nauseated; unable to think clearly about eternity, unable to hear the still, small voice of the Spirit? A season when you opened your Bible and it felt like a foreign language? A season when prayer felt like talking to the ceiling?

And can you see, now, what it cost you? That Day; that glorious, terrible, certain Day; coming upon you unawares. Not because you did not believe. But because you were asleep.

But here is the good news, and I will leave you with it, wrapped in all the love I have it is not too late to wake up. It is not too late to get oil in your vessel. It is not too late to squeeze out the mud and let the clear water in. It is not too late to clean the house and put fresh flowers on the table, because the Father is still coming, and He is not angry tonight; He is grieved with love, and He is calling your name.

The night is far spent. The day is at hand. Put on the Lord Jesus Christ. Watch and pray. And when that Day comes; and it will come; may it not find you unawares. May it find you watching. May it find you ready. May it find you standing before the Son of man; not with a hangover and a sigh, but with a lamp burning and oil in your vessel, and a heart that has been waiting for Him all along.

“Watch ye therefore, and pray always, that ye may be accounted worthy to escape all these things that shall come to pass, and to stand before the Son of man.”

A Prayer for the Ready Heart

Father, we thank You for the warning that is a gift; for every time You have called our names across the street of this world to save us. Lord, search our hearts tonight, and search them gently, the way only You can. If there is any surfeiting, any drunkenness of this world, any care that has overcharged us, we ask You to cleanse us. Squeeze out the mud, Lord. Rinse us in the clear water of Your Word. Fill us with Your Spirit until we are ready for anything. Wake us up, before that Day comes unawares. Keep us watching, keep us praying, keep us ready to stand before Your Son with lamps burning and oil in our vessels.

And Father, for the one reading these words whose heart is heavy tonight; the one who has been sleeping and did not know it, the one who has been drinking from broken cisterns and is thirsty still; meet them here. Speak their name. Remind them that the door is still open, the oil is still available, the Bridegroom is still coming, and He is coming for them.

In Jesus’ name. Amen.


Beloved, I love you. I am praying for you. And I will see you; watching; on that Day.

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